Really.... did it ever occur to you, the reason you fell from UU grace was due to your priorities at the time? When you reassign priorities in your life from tangible interactions (ie family members, friends at school) to intangible (online/virtual relationships), the shift usually creates conflicts in both worlds. Finding a healthy balance between the two is the key to its success. That is one of the main reasons why Classixz decided to retire and pass the baton to Griggs and Gart; he needed to find that balance. In the beginning you had that balance, but quickly lost it. A progression/deterioration that many of us noticed at the time in conversations with you. The point being of my message, don't judge where others place their priorities. Gart placed his where he saw fit.